'The pain is overwhelming' says family of fatally-stabbed security guard Gary Stanley after his funeral in Milton Keynes

Gary Stanley, 52, died of horrific stab wounds while he was on duty at centre:mk on February 28.

His death released a tidal wave of mourning from shoppers and people who knew him from all over the city as ‘Big Stan’. Mountains of flowers were laid in his memory at the shopping centre and a special book of condolance was provided by the centre management.

Yesterday (Monday March 30) saw Gary’s funeral take place at Crownhill Crematorium. So many people attended that speakers had be be provided outside because the chapel was full.

Today Gary’s family have released a tribute to him, saying: "We would like to say a heartfelt thank you to everyone, the members of the public who stopped to help, the ambulance crews, and the police. Your kindness and efforts mean more to us than we can put into words.”

They added: "We are completely heartbroken. Finding the words to express our grief feels impossible right now. The pain is overwhelming, and we are just trying to navigate each day as it comes.

"What we do know is that Gary truly touched so many hearts. He will always be remembered for his infectious smile, his silly videos, and simply for being him. He brought laughter and warmth wherever he went.”

The tribute concludes “We love you always” and is signed by Ross, Pippa, Caitlin and your grandkids.

The family requested a traditional black dress code for the funeral. It was family flowers only but donations can be made in Gary’s memory to Aching Arms, a charity that gives comfort after pregnancy and baby loss.

Donations can be made via the undertakers H W Mason.

Towcester man Rory Wilson, aged 50, has been charged with Gary’s murder and possession of a bladed article in a public place. He appeared at Aylesbury Crow Court via video link on March 4 and was remanded in custody at Bullingdon Prison. A provisional trial date has been set for September 7 2026 at Crown Court.